Stop Waiting for a Man to Complete You

ANNIE Eure Author

Discover why finding your identity, healing from past hurts, and becoming clear about your values can transform the kind of man you attract.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "If I could just find the right man, everything in my life would finally feel complete?" 

If you have, you're not alone. But what if the very thing you're waiting for is the one thing keeping you from the relationship you truly desire? 

Hi, I'm Annie Eure. Here's a truth that changed my life and the lives of many women I've coached over the years. The right man isn't looking for a woman who needs to be completed. He's looking for a woman who already knows who she is. 

Let me tell you about a woman I'll call Denise. Denise was 52, divorced after twenty-three years of marriage, and convinced that finding another husband would erase the loneliness she felt every evening.

She tried online dating. She lowered her standards hoping her fishing pool would be wider because she feared growing old alone. She overlooked disrespect because she didn't want another failed relationship.

One day she said something I'll never forget. She said, "I don't even recognize the woman I've become." That statement wasn't really about dating. It was about identity. 

Instead of focusing on finding the right man, Denise decided to rediscover herself. She spent time with God. She wrote down her values. She learned to enjoy her own company again. She healed from the pain she had carried for years.

Months later she smiled and said, "For the first time in my life, I'm no longer desperate to be chosen by a man. I'm choosing wisely." That is where everything changed for her. 

Many women believe a relationship creates happiness. No! You create happiness. The truth is, healthy relationships reveal the healthy state that's already inside you.

If you don't know your worth, you'll accept almost any attention. If you don't know your values, you'll compromise them the first time a man comes around. If you aren't clear about God's purpose for your life, you'll let someone else's vision become your identity. 

The greatest relationship you'll ever build isn't with a man. It's the relationship you have with yourself—and with the God that created you. When those two relationships become strong, you stop chasing love and start recognizing it.

Now I want you to complete this "Clarity Exercise". It is your first step to "stop waiting for a man to complete you." So Grab a notebook and answer these three questions honestly:

Question number one: Who am I without a relationship? 

Question number two: What are five non-negotiable values I want my future relationship to reflect?

And question number three: Am I searching for someone to rescue me—or someone to walk beside me? 

Don't rush your answers. Your clarity today determines your choices tomorrow.

Remember this: You don't attract what you wish for—you attract what you're prepared for. So why not prepare for the man that is right for you. If this video message encouraged you, subscribe, and share it with another woman who needs hope today, and remember: the right relationship begins long before you meet the right man. 

It begins with becoming the right woman. I invite you to go deeper, and join my course on how to attract a man that is right for you. The one who aligns with your values, beliefs, and goals. 

So go ahead, click the button below and stop settling for confusion—step into clarity, confidence, and the relationship you truly deserve. Don't forget to join my email list, and check me out on Youtube. Enroll today.